How to tell if men are good in bed

According to a survey of 400 women by Deakin University Psychology professor Marita McCabe, and PhD student Katie Giles, 55% of women are dissatisfied with their sex. Are women that hard to please? Are men too selfish? Is there too much unrealistic expectations on what sex should be based on hollywood love scenes and online porn? Women blame it on the men for not caring. Men blame it on the women for not pulling any moves.

So how can you tell if a man is going to be good in bed?

Can he give a good massage?

An A-Class foot massage followed by an unexpected hug and the sweetest kiss…..is a good indicator that he is actually a tiger.

- MSG

See how he rips the dance floor?

I think dancing can be a pointer. It’s not if he’s a good dancer that counts. It in how he relates to his partner.

I’m thinking of two dance instructors I know. One is a very good dancer with a great bod and sexy looks. I’ve never danced with him, but have watched him. He moves well, and is a real show pony on the floor, but he’s so interested in showing off his own moves he forgets his partners. Sometimes he may as well be dancing solo, as the woman becomes a prop for him, and appear a little lost. That’s really bad news in an instructor and if that’s what he does in a role where he’s supposed to care for and support his partner, I’d hate to think what he’s like in bed.

The other instructor is also great to watch on the floor. I danced with him once and it was such a pleasure. He was there as a partner, effortlessly, so it appeared, hand always in the right place, support and leading and timing. The difference is that he was always aware of where I was and what I was doing. He cares about his partners and it shows in the way he shows them off. He also has a joy in the dance that is playful and communicates itself to his partner. I’ve always thought he’d be such fun in the sack - caring but with a sense of mischief.

- mother duck

Go for the quite ones?

The quite chicks that are a bit different can really ‘go off’ in the sack. They are usually great company to have a round after the deed is done too. The one’s that ‘put it’ out there can be pretty ordinary in the sack. They kinda just lie there and hope for the best. After the deed is done, you can’t get rid of them fast enough. This has been my experience to date, anyway.

- roy

There’s too many variables to scientifically answer this

Size of hands, timbre of voice, dances moves, what does it matter? I’ve known several bad dancers who were incredible sexual partners. None of this stuff conclusively determines whether or not someone will get you off.

Example..

Person A likes romantic love-making with a bit of 69ing.

Person B likes it rough, is not really into oral but loves to talk dirty.

These two people may very well have chemistry, but their first encounter with one another could be very up-and-down (LOLPUN). Person A might consider Person B to be a lousy lay, based on his/her personal experiences, interests and willingness (or lack thereof) to try new things.

..why bother trying to definitively qualify something that depends on so many variables?

- Ms L

Take some control yourself?

Maybe the number of women who reach orgasm through sex would increase if they stopped relying solely on their man to make them come. Take responsibility for your own pleasure!!!

- Frisky Librarian

In the end though, the only sure way is to give them a try…

Written by admin on June 6th, 2008 with no comments.
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